Question:

so im thinking about getting a restraining order out against my babys dad. he is at me 24 7 to get an abortion
its really stresses me out and i know its not good for the baby. im in my 2nd trimester now and still wont let up about abortions. he is driving me crazy. i has not hurt me phisicly and he would not do that. so is it even possible to get a restraining order????? should i ?

Answers:

A-Best: I was in the very same situation. My ex-bf and I found out I was pregnant. He URGED me EVERY DAY to get an abortion. I am completely against them and decided to keep the baby and raise it myself. But, "thankfully" (his words), I miscarried at 4 months (probably from all of the stress. What a jerk... Even though it is not physical abuse, it is harassment and I think that you could still get a protective order against him. Explain to him that even though HE may not want to keep the baby, YOU do. Let him know that he should be there for you and your child no matter what, but that if he is not ready for a child, then that is his choice. He always has the option of signing his parental rights over to you, but be aware that you may not get child support if that is the case. Good luck and I will say a little prayer for you and your situation.  

A: i wouldn't get a restraining order unless he is physically threatening you. Just keep your distance from him, stop talking to him until he decides to grow up and take responsibility for his child.  

A: Get one now, before he hurts you or the baby. Think about whats best for you and your little baby, and I think it'll lead you to the right decision. You deserve better & your baby deserves a good life. Good Luck!  

A: What a loser! You could try to get a restraining order. Perhaps you could talk about this with your ob/gyn and see what he/she has to say. You could also call a lawyer or social services for advice, or a home for unwed mothers or even try the domestic abuse hotline.  

A: I think you should, it's harrassment! You may talk to a lawyer to discuss this (some lawyers even do pro bono work!). Why does he want an abortion anyway? Is he worried about child support? Is he married? Do you still want him to be part of your baby's life? If not, break off the relationship immediately and you can tell him to relax because even if you're keeping the baby, the baby won't be using his last name, and that you will not be needing his support on this. I think that will get him to stop.  

A: if you feel in danger you can get a petection order! Its too late for an abortion, but now you must keep yourself safe. If you do feel at danger please call 1800 799 SAFE they will help you with your questions  

A: hang in there and have the baby, then get a dna test and take him to court for child support(this comment is from a dad)  

A: You need to tell him to leave you alone - no calls, no internet, no, in person. If he then keeps up you have a basis to get a court order. BE FIRM>