Question:

My girlfriend wants to be with me 24 hours a day, but i need some space. What can i do?
I enjoy her company but i told her that i also need time for my friends and family and she doesn't seem to understand. I usually see her 5 days a week but it's still not enough for her. She told me that if I didn't want to spend more time with her (an excessive amount, in my opinion), she would lose interest in me and eventually find another guy who wants to be with her all the time. What should I do? Help, PLEASE

Answers:

A-Best: Her attitude is either selfish or childish. She might has a dependant type personality, if this is the case she really does need to be with someone 24/7. This is a problem, but it can be cured or at least helped. If she does not see that she has a problem, then she is not likely to ever change. If you really love her, talk to her first. If all she does is panic and tell you that spending less time with you is not an option, then tell her that you suspect that she might have a small problem and help her find help. Be supportive, not critical. If she refuses, then let things go where they go. Some people like their own misery more than they like other people.  

A: I am a female but have hade the same experience with other men. Sweety, you just really need to sit her down and explain to her that love does not mean that you have to be together 24/7. My husand works 12 hours a day. Although I like "my time" it really makes me want him even more knowing that I have not seen him for so long in a days time. Ever heard the phrase, absence makes the heart grow founder? If this continues, I'm afraid that you are just going to continue to be anoid about the situation. Also, depending on your age and place in life, If you are not ready to "settle down" maybe it is time to move on. I'm sorry that I have no wisdom words for you. This is just the way that I felt.  

A: She is bluffing(about finding another guy)to get her way. Not going to lie,I've done it. Obviously she isn't as apathetic as she seems about the situation or she wouldn't want to spend more time with you. She would just go find that magic guy that would treat her the way she wanted to be treated. Tell her how you feel in a nice and sweet tone and watch how you tell her you don't want to spend all your time with her because she might think that she did something wrong and that you want out. But if she still persists then I would go find someone else who respects you and you having a life outside of your relationship.  

A: giver her some challenging job to do independently boosting her talent. In this way u can divert her attention in good way which is useful to both of you. If u are afraid that she will find another guy u dont need that girl of such character.  

A: suggest some idea or activites to do without you joining  

A: Give her some money and let her go shopping.